Friday, April 21, 2006

Help Wanted!!

My husband is a drummer in several bands. He has a full-time job in addition to all these weekend "gigs" at local bars and festivals. Music is truly his passion in life but it has reached ridiculous levels as far as time consumption goes.

What is a happy medium? What is a compromise? Help me oh interneties with wonderful wisdom!!


Juliabohemian said...

there's nothing you can do...he's a DRUMMER. They are a completely different breed of human being.
Try and sit down with him and maybe discuss what your expectations are. Find out what he is willing to do without as far as how he spends his time.

or, you can get yourself some bongos and go join him.

Susie said...

Bless your heart. I don't have any advice other than to lovingly tell him you miss him, and could y'all come to some kind of compromise?


jessica said...

Get a sitter and go with him. Who might enjoy it too!